Jennifer Lopez on Talking Divorce With Twins Emme and Max

Jennifer Lopez She opened about how to break her divorce news from Ben Affleck With her twins, EMME and Max.

“I had a truly difficult year. Ironing things happened. Thus, I read a lot of books. I did a lot of self -delay,” Al -Mughni, 55, said in an interview with El Pais Posted on Wednesday, May 7.

Lopez Emmy and Max, both of them are 17, with a former husband Mark Anthony. When Lopez ultimately applied for divorce from Affleck, 52, in August 2024, she sat with her children to talk about the variable dynamic in their families.

I said, “I promise you, this is a difficult time, but you will see that I will go out on the other side stronger and better. “I made it clear,” I promised to do so and did so. “They now feel it. This gives me a great feeling of peace in my life. “

Lopez added that she made a lot of effort to focus on improving the welfare of her family.

“I have read a lot of books about childhood, marriage, relationships, different love patterns, brain and science … Over the years, I did individual therapy, couples therapy, and family treatment. I had everything, I’m always looking for,” you remember. “I think it is all about learning about yourself. It is all about knowing yourself. You have to be ready for that. You have to want it. And even when you want it, it’s difficult to change certain things. But you can.”

Lopez learns that while everyone experiences rough spots, real lessons in life come from how a person persevere.

“Everyone is going through difficult times in their lives. This is what you do in those moments that really determine you,” she said. “The relationship is not, not the man: what determines you is what you do with the experiences you face. I take these experiences – whether good or bad – and link them.”

Now, Lopez has become “happier” with how difficult it has difficult conversations with her children.

She said: “I am proud of that, and I am proud that I was able to move in my children during difficult times, and that they are stronger and better because of that,” explaining that she is ready to return to the tour. “Therefore, it’s a great time to go there, dance, singing, and have fun with everyone.”

When Lopez and Affleck began for the first time in marital problems, the singer was canceled This is I live A tour to focus on her family. Now Lopez finds herself in a better head space and is ready to see her fans again.

“I just want to go on a tour when we celebrate,” I bothered. “We will spend a fun time.”

Lopez and Nficke ended their divorce earlier this year, with a judge in paper works in February.