Man chooses friends and barbecue over his wife and their needy new baby

Reddit drama illuminates social media as a new mother for a newborn, she is “crazy” because of her husband’s choices and the challenges of her current family, with clinical psychology connection to obtain an insight into the dilemma.

“I gave birth to six weeks ago and it was difficult,” the mother wrote in the publication.

“The recovery from the emergency department C, in addition to that they believe that I may suffer from a problem with the pancreas in the liver while I am fine-in addition to my mental health diving, not to mention the care of newborns!”

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And she continued, “The new baby screams anything from 2-4 hours every night. Try everything to calm down and treat it, like [it’s] Most likely colic. My mother has so far added, he has not changed any bond or methods of behavior.

“We also have a 6 -year -old child and have completely different needs. While 6 -year -old screams, 6 -year -old needs a bathroom, a bed before bed, etc.”

The mother said that the couple was “this team sign.”

I wrote that they have one of the parents to one child “to make sure that both are well.”

“But it is still difficult in an incredible way for all of us.”

Now comes the invitation and options of the husband that sparked the discussion.

“Please do not go. I need help at that time.”

His friends invited him to the barbecue tonight and he will be literally leaving completely [our] “I started 6 weeks old.”

So I said, “Please do not go. I need help at that time. “She added that taking into account that his friends meet regularly and not as if he did not do that day, this is everything for a year.”

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The husband replied, “Children cry, just deal, I am going,” the young mother wrote.

She said, “I tried to point out that I know they are crying, but it is not about dealing, and I felt that it was really selfish that he was choosing his friends to choose his family. Until I said if it was at any other time, I will not face a problem with that.”

“My child does not know her, and he is only 6 weeks [old]”A young mother said, referring to her mother -in -law, who does not live near the family.” So they are all round, not a good solution. “ (Istock)

She said that her husband “returned to work, and I am dealing with that – he was literally at the time of night difficult.”

But “he said I am” controlled “not to allow him to see his friends. I really turned into a bad moment for us as I was devastating to call” control. “I don’t really think that this is what I am trying to do and that he could not see him from my view.”

My mom said that the next day, her husband apologized.

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He said, “He was completely wrong and [he] We can see how bad things if he goes and said he will not go. “

However, she added: “Quickly forward to this day – where he tells me that he is going and if I am not able to deal, he will take the child and drop it on [mom’s] To take care.

The young mother wrote that the problem is that his mother is “not close, and she does not know all the things we try to colic, such as Meds, etc., and she will have to deal with a child screaming. Also, her two children do not know only 6 weeks, so they are all solutions, not a good solution.”

“I feel crazy here,” wrote a young woman (unclean) on the subject of social media. “I just want some support from my partner today, it’s more difficult with our child!” (Istock)

She said that her husband “also knows that things are somewhat difficult between me and his mother, so I feel that this was a little manipulation on his part … He knows that I will never choose his mother as an option, but I can now say that he has found a solution where he can go.”

“I feel crazy here. I just want some support from my partner today, it’s difficult with our child!”

“This is very angry to read.”

Fox News Digital reached a California -based psychiatric world for insight, as other users shared their reactions and comments.

A person wrote in a comment from the top of the classification, “You are welcome to attend BBQ tonight. Tomorrow night, you will stay at home with the child and the child while going out and get a break.” – I can guarantee that he will not agree to it, “added the user.

Another person said: “Children’s comment” crying, just dealing “will make him sleep in his mother’s house if my husband is.

A person said about the drama: “Comment” crying children, just dealing, “will make him sleep in his mother’s house if my husband is.” (Istock)

Another user on the platform said, “I am sorry, but your husband is completely unreasonable. We have two children … We have an agreement that if any of us goes out, this is after 7 pm as soon as they are in bed. This means that we are still getting a social life without leaving the other in chaos.”

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The same person added, “It is not possible to ask him to make some sacrifices … especially since he can still get out shortly after that.”

Another commentator was much more than this situation. “This is very angry. I am very sorry that it treats you like this after all you have gone through.”

“He cannot expect you to pass alone.”

“If I have a 9 -month child’s pregnancy partner, he underwent a major abdomen and suffered from continuous health problems to ensure safe birth for my child – I will worship the land that they walked for the rest of my life.”

The same person added, “It is incredibly selfish, and it nullifies your feelings, and there is no excuse for this but pure selfish.”

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Another person still participated in a more accurate reaction.

“I can see that it is difficult for parents as well, and do not blame him for his desire for a break. But this is exactly the reason for staying. You can’t expect you to pass alone!