Moms are living ‘vicariously’ through their college daughters’ sorority rush experiences

For some mothers, the Rush club is not just the rituals of their daughter – it’s too.

With the presence of “Rush Week” in the campus throughout the country and documenting the viral “Rushtok” direction, the lights are not only on potential new members but also their mothers. Some of them are doing their best to secure a desirable offer for their daughters in ways that the parents say that their colleagues can already turn a process of punishing into high -risk family drama.

“Every girl passes through the rush, there is a mother behind her [who] “A mother guide from Rush Club!”.

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“I may want it more,” one of the mother recognized the same trailer.

Another said that she was living “indirectly” through her daughter’s experience. Another said that the budget of the rush, for her, is “not present.”

Some families spend up to $ 10,000 in preparing their daughters – from luxurious accessories and designers’ wardrobes to designers designers and trainers who receive up to $ 5,000 to direct girls during the interview, according to reports.

This is all before annual fees and housing fees, which can top 15,000 dollars if young women are accepted in a chapter.

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“When the personal and emotional investment of one of the parents in their children’s activities becomes extreme, he usually motivates him one of two simple interpretations.

“Parents did not have the opportunities themselves and try to compensate for this loss by ensuring that their child has those opportunities, or they had a special experience and they strongly believe that their child had an important matter for each of the child’s future and to the mother and daughter of the daughter.”

Some experts say that the start of the college can be tired enough without the additional pressure of exploration of a women’s club. (Al Drao/CQ Roll Call)

But a lot of participation can bring in reverse results.

Girls may feel anxious about failure, disappointing their mothers, or admitting lack of interest in something their fathers want a lot, Maeers warned.

“It may be easy to forget the challenge of the university years,” he added. “The hurry experience – despite the excitement – temporarily adds to their stress and also gives serious anger if the process did not go the way they were hoping.”

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Daniel Caron, a lawyer and advisor to the brotherhood in Ohio, told Fox News Digital, while hiring brotherhood is often described as a “open invitation”, our organization can be “harshly harsh”.

“It can include dances, plays, wearing certain clothes, presenting CVs, letters of recommendation, governor, or wandering in every home at least once, and suffering through a mutual selection process,” said Caron, who is a young brother himself and the father of children who were part of Greek life.

Its industrial preparatory preparatory has become with coaches, social media strategies and designer safes. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)

“This is the way I worked as a women’s club on my wife’s day – and how it is still working today,” he added.

“It is a process of punishment, unnecessary and twisted, doing nothing to facilitate and promote mental health that is very necessary for novice women.”

While parents are trying to direct standards, others argue that the best approach is to decline.

Marva Bayer, a young Delta University of Maryland Kapa, a female graduate of a women’s club, said she paid her private organization’s fees while working on her way through college.

“Parents have to give up. You cannot put space aid on everything.”

“I have always been my position,” said Pirles for Fox News Digital.

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“But there are many mothers who still feel that they need to pick up all school supplies, lunch and shoes that their children have forgotten.”

Pearl, an author of his headquarters in Atlanta, said that the rush of a women’s club could feel like an outlet for parents who wrestle with identity while leaving children home.

Umm said that some parents are struggling with their identity as soon as their children go to the college. (Istock)

“Rush feels an opportunity to influence their daughter’s experience,” she said.

“but [children] “You must face failure, disappointment, and make decisions on their own,” she added.

“Parents have to give up. You cannot put space aid on everything.”

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She emphasized that our organization’s life offers much more than parties of nature and take photos.

For example, her daughter’s separation, Sigma Kapa at the University of Georgia, for example, helped to raise a million dollars for the children’s miracle network while she is there.

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“Rush looks like a party, but it really relates to skills – planning, societal interconnection,” said Pearl.